So, I indirectly know this girl, and I feel the need to share her story just in case someone else is going through the same situation. Before my current relationship, I knew nothing about boys, neither did I know the games they play. I promise this is not made up, this is actually factual.
(Because of the privacy law on my page, I will, under no circumstances release her personal info)
Miss. Unknown: “I’ve been with this mystery guy for about three years, on and off. We met at a party, when we saw each other across the room. He walked up to me while a slow jam, they don’t know by Jon B. was playing when he asked me for a dance. He was cute, about 6’2” medium brown with really nice waves I just couldn’t resist saying yes. While dancing we were talking and found out that we had a lot in common. I gave him my number, he would call here and there but I wanted more. He took me out on a date, in the city and I was so happy. We saw a movie and ate right after, I didn’t want the night to end, so we went back to my place and had some late night coffee. While us trying to get to know each other, the boy told me that he use to be married but they never got a chance to have children together, so I asked him if he ever wanted to have kids — I mean he was about early to mid thirties. He said he never thought about it, but if the time was right, he guess he’d be happy. I understood and wasn’t bothered too much by the fact, so we hung out in my house and… you know the rest.